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The
following is an excerpt from our book, "Gearing
Up". The book is a collection of chapters from
top trainers and speakers around the world...and
it's specifically designed to help young people
find success in school and in life.
The PLAYER method can be used in
the classroom. It requires minimal effort and
when practiced, can achieve phenomenal results
that trigger a cataclysmic change in your
attitude towards “Class Time”. It can also be
used to improve your grades without requiring
any additional homework, study time or trips to
the library. PLAYER is also an acronym. Each
letter of the word stands for a part of the
method. That should make it easier to remember.
Let’s break it down piece by
piece.
P
– stands for posture.
Your mom has probably
told you to “sit up” a thousand times and you
are probably sick of being told to do it. But,
there are two really good reasons to have good
posture in the classroom:
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Your brain and body are
connected. Your brain is stimulated by
electrical impulses that travel throughout
your body carrying information gathered by
your senses. Most of that information
travels down the original “information
superhighway”…your spinal cord. All along
your spine, critical nerve pathways move
information to and from your brain stem in
your neck. So, just like stepping on a
garden hose, when your spine is curved, bent
or slouched, you are cutting off the
movement of electricity to your brain.
That’s not good. Your brain then starts to
conserve energy by falling asleep. That’s
not good in the classroom. It’s hard to
learn anything if you’re asleep. So sit up
nice and straight.
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People form opinions about
people based on how they look. Now, besides
what you’re wearing, your hair style, and
your new shoes, your posture sends very
strong messages to other people. What do you
think a teacher is thinking about you if
they notice that you are slouching in your
chair?
They may be thinking things like, lazy,
bored, uninterested or poor student. You may
not be those things but that’s what they are
thinking and that’s what they will associate
with your face and name.
What do you think a teacher is thinking when
they notice a student that is sitting up,
with good posture?
They will probably be thinking things like,
prepared, good listener, attentive and
conscientious student.
Now that’s a good impression to give.
Having good posture takes little
or no effort and will get you noticed in the
classroom. The goal is to be remembered for the
good things that you do.
L – stands for lean forward.
This is easy to do and
has some real benefits. When you lean forward,
it reduces the amount of pressure on your lower
back and helps the flow of electricity and info
to the brain. Also, when you lean forward, it
gives the impression that you are interested in
what is being said. A teacher will look around
the classroom and notice, consciously or
subconsciously, that you are leaning forward.
Again, this is a good impression to leave.
A – stands for Ask Questions.
I cannot emphasize the
importance of this one enough. Learning is not a
spectator sport. You have to participate in the
process. Here are four reasons to put up your
hand and ask a question in class:
1.
When I ask students why they
don’t participate in class, 9 out of 10 of them
say that they don’t ask questions or give
answers because they are afraid of saying
something stupid and being laughed at. My
response to that is, “As
soon as you worry about looking stupid, you will
become stupid.”
If you stop participating, the
brain will disengage and learning will taper
off.
2.
If you’re thinking it, so is
someone else. Many times, there are several
students with the same question but only one
with the guts to ask it. When you ask a
question, you are probably helping a bunch of
other people in the process. That’s part of
being a good PLAYER and a LEARNING PIONEER.
3.
Asking a question will cause the
teacher to repeat critical information.
Repetition is an essential part of the learning
process and the more times, and the more ways
that a teacher can put forth the information,
the more likely it is to stick.
4.
Asking questions can actually
make your teacher better. Teachers have more
responsibilities than ever. An increased
pressure to deliver standardized curriculum
means that teachers are always learning new
content that may or may not be their expertise.
They are doing the best they can and your
questions can give them feedback. They will know
which parts they are not delivering in a way
that is easily understandable. This improves
their ability to teach you and benefits all
their students.
Asking
questions is easy to do and will get you noticed
for a positive behavior. If you are not
comfortable or are not allowed to ask questions
during class, make a note of them and then
approach your teacher after class to get them
answered.
Y – stands for what I call
“YES Head”.
It’s real simple to do and can be super
effective. Let’s do a quick experiment.
Think of the word “NO” and make
the head movement that goes along with that
word.
Great. Now, think of the word
“YES” and make the head movement that goes along
with that word.
Your head can be used as a tool
for communicating with your teacher. All you
need to do is gently nod your head “YES” as the
teacher speaks. You don’t need to say anything,
just nod your head positively.
Here’s what this will do for you
and why it works. When you nod your head, the
teacher translates that motion as a “YES”. YES
is a positive word and they will be thinking
that you are in agreement with them. This is
feedback for them and they will appreciate your
positivity, even on a subconscious level.
The reason this works is that
human beings are designed as predators. Our eyes
are on the front of our heads and we seek things
out with them. We are attracted to motion and
will be drawn to whatever moves. That’s why
teachers are always distracted by the one kid
throwing spitballs or playing around with
something at the back of the room. Nodding your
head will attract the teacher and get you
noticed for another positive behavior.
E- stands for expression.
The look on your face
speaks volumes about you. It’s a simple fact of
life. When people have a frown on their face, we
assume that they are angry and we interact with
them under that assumption. When a teacher looks
around a classroom and sees a bunch of sleepy,
uninterested, frowning or angry people, they
will interact with you based on what they are
seeing. So, use your face to get noticed in a
positive way. Smile, raise an eyebrow, smirk or
mouth the word “WOW” once in a while. You will
stand out and get noticed for yet another
positive behavior.
Combine those parts, Posture,
Lean Forward, Ask Questions, YES Head and
Expression and you already have an easy to use,
effective system for improving the effectiveness
of your “Class Time”. But, there’s still one
more part to the PLAYER method and it’s the
purpose for doing all the other parts.
R – stands for relationship.
Here’s the biggest secret that I can let you in
on. TEACHERS ARE HUMAN BEINGS. That’s right. I
know it’s shocking.
When I was seven I really
believed that teachers stayed at the school. I
thought that the custodian came by each
classroom each night and tucked the teacher away
into the closet and the fired them back up again
each morning. It never occurred to me that they
had lives outside of school.
So the final part of PLAYER is to
develop a relationship with your teachers. They
are wonderful people who are there to be a
resource for you. They are some of the most
interesting and good people on the planet. Get
to know them. Before class starts, ask them
questions about their favorite foods, movies,
music, sports, TV shows or anything else.
They’ll appreciate being treated like human
beings.
That’s the whole PLAYER method.
It’s all so easy and I guarantee that you’ll
find it to be effective. The whole point is to
increase your participation in the learning
process by making the classroom comfortable
again. This method will keep your brain awake,
get you noticed for positive behaviors and help
you to build a great relationship with your
teachers. That’s’ a winning formula for the game
of school and the secret code to unlocking your
academic potential.
The most successful people do the
simplest things with consistency.
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