A mucker is someone who slows down and prevents good
communication from happening. What the Muck? outlines
four basic ways to clean up communication.
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Listening vs. Waiting to
Talk
A lot of people when they are listening are not
actually listening and are instead wondering when it
is their turn. One of the number one things is to
make sure that when someone is talking to you, you
are listening and really taking in the information
so when you start to talk it is suitable for the
conversation.
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Scene Stealer
This is someone who actually might be very
interested in what the other person is saying but
they never let the other person finish. It is not
that they are not positive or supportive, but it is
that they get right into it. That is the ability to
not allow someone else to say what they want to say
and they just take it away from you.
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Top This
Whatever someone is sharing, this person feels the
need to go right up there and top the other person.
This comes from the person's natural need to feel
significant. It is a habit. If you make people feel
little, chances are they will stop talking to you
because you are always one step ahead or better than
they are.
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Blind Question
This type of question is where the person asking it
has all the information so he can make the decision.
They are dangerous and can lead to the other person
losing trust in you so that every time you ask a
question, they may or not be honest with you simply
because the last time they were set up.
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