Seeds Training and True North - HIT Training for Educators

Victim vs. Responsible
Live above the line.

The line represents anytime that we make a mistake. In that moment we can make any of several choices. Some of those choices are "below the line" and some are "above the line". The choices that are below the line will strip you of an opportunity to learn from your mistakes. Those behaviors are:

Laying blame
Making excuses
Denial
Quitting

At one time or another, we have all chosen a behavior that is below the line. Each time, we have allowed ourselves to be a VICTIM. A victim is someone who is not in control of their outcomes. Life just happens "to" a victim and they are always "dealing with" or "coping with" something that they refuse take ownership for creating.

The behaviors above the line demonstrate a RESPONSIBLE mindset. They allow you to learn from your mistakes. Some of the behaviors that are above the line are:

Acknowledging that you have made a mistake
Taking responsibility and ownership for your actions
Making informed choices
Pursuing personal freedom

Responsible people are very much in control of their lives. They "handle" situations and see mistakes as "learning opportunities" for growth and improvement. As a result, they exude humility and develop trusting relationships. These behaviors open up a wider range of opportunities and lead them on a path to greater freedom.

Where do you want live? The choice is yours...every moment of every day.